What natural hair has taught me thus far.

This natural hair journey has been fun and quite trying at times. One minute I absolutely love it, and the next minute I’m asking myself who the hell told me to do this. I love researching new products, making my own concoctions in the kitchen, and flirting with new styles. However, at times I just wish I had someone who could do it all for me. I get lazy and don’t wash my hair for days at a time and then I am a militant soldier who has their routine down. I become inspired and in awe of all of my beautiful natural hair role models and the next moment I despise how damn perfectly coiffed their hair is all the time. Some days my hair is banging!! Yeah! Others, I’m scratching my head thinking, “wth, didn’t I just do this the same way yesterday using the same products?” Let’s not even mention the amount of money spent on keeping up my product habit. I often find myself watching youtube videos and thinking to myself, “how in the hell are these heifers hair always together?” Lastly, I miss my hair. A lot. I even caught myself walking up behind my friend whose hair is the same length mine was before I cut it, and placed my head up under the back of her hair just so I could remember what it felt like. Sigh, yeah I did that.

Nonetheless, I can truly say that I am very grateful and glad that I chose to go natural. I have been exposed to a whole new culture that I never knew existed. I have met many different people who have made the choice to be natural for very different reasons and yet they still connect and relate to one another. People whom I would have never met walk up to me and say, “excuse me, what do you use in your hair?” This sparks a 30 min conversation about products and the trials of being natural and sometimes lifelong connections are made. In my personal life I love helping people and this has become another outlet that allows me to continue that work.

Being an Aries, we are labeled as being the children of Caprice. That basically means we have a tendency to start things but have trouble finishing them because we are on to the next one. I have a lot of things I have completed in life but those very personal things I’d like to do for myself tend to fall in the incomplete category. I have only been natural, well it’ll be 7mths May 18th but I have persevered. Being natural, and this blog fall into the category of the personal things I wanted to do for myself and I’m still going. That says a lot because truthfully when it comes to myself, I would have stopped in a month, 2 months tops. I suppose you can say being natural taught me to take more time for myself. Lastly, being natural is teaching me patience because the Aries in me is like hurry the hell up! I say that to my hair a lot and I’ve found that she doesn’t like when I speak to her like that. That’s usually when she does whatever the hell she wants lol. Although I do have those few days that I question why I chose to do this, I am very glad that I did because it has taught me so much about myself and I can’t wait to learn more.

What has your natural hair journey taught you?

Jiquay

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The World Natural Hair Show

Ok, let me begin by saying that those lines were freaking RI-DONK-ULOUS and I will be purchasing my tickets online from now on! That being said…I had so much fun at the WNHS! I had my girls with me and you know we went in on products! These are all mine but my girls bought just as many products as I did so yeah we kinda lost our minds at the show.

Ok, so we knew that Uncle Funky’s Daughter would be a vendor at the show so as soon as I walked in the door I made a beeline for their booth. The line was out the door and it seemed as if they were the most popular booth at the time. I already knew that I wanted the Curly Magic. One of the reasons most people attend the WNHS is to take advantage of the great deals on the products they either already love or want to try. HOWEVER, Uncle Funky’s Daughter was NOT one of the vendors that offered a great deal. They did have a bundle that you could get at a discount but the gel, umm no. No deals for you lady! I was highly disappointed at this because I was ready to leave with at least 2 0r 3 of the Curly Magics but no bueno! So I only purchased 1 for regular price and some Extra Butter moisturizer and walked away slick mad. Despite that little set back I caught some really great deals from the other vendors. Here’s what I got:

Uncle Funky’s Curly Magic and Extra Butter

B.A.S.K.’s Palm Tapioca

Camille Rose Naturals’  Aloe Whipped Gel, Curl Love Moisture Milk, and Jansyn’s Moisture Max Conditioner

Karen’s Body Beautiful Hair Nectar in White Tea and Sweet Ambrosia in Creamy Cocoa Mango and Pomegranate Guava

Shea Radiance Moisturizing Hair Milk, Maximum Hair Defining Cream, and Ultra Rich Shea Buttercream.

African Pride’s Bouncy Curl Pudding and Leave-in Condish

I stopped by As I Am but they were all sold out so they gave me a coupon for 20% off and free shipping. I thought that was very cool of them. I also purchased 3 t-shirts and a bunch of jewelry.

Lastly, I love to go to the WNHS to hopefully run into my favorite youtubers and I did just that. More than I expected…here are the pics.

Mlle. CafeAuLait The very first natural hair youtuber I watched and my inspiration to go natural!

Side Note: I have no idea what is going on with my eyes in this pic, nor what that spot is but this was the only pic I had and I WANT to post it! That is all.

MakeupAnBeautyJunkie (She was so sweet and very gracious)

2nd from far right CurlyKimmyStar

I can honestly say that I had a very fun and satisfying trip. I can’t wait to do it again next year and I know exactly who to take with me…

I’ll post pics of the hotel we stayed in and the outfits I wore in the next post.

Talk to you soon,

Jiquay

Natural Girls Rock Anniversary Party!

As I stated in my last post, I attended the World Natural Hair Show in the ATL. this past weekend. Prior to Natural Girls Rock had their Anniversary Party the Friday before the hair show and I couldn’t wait to attend! My friends and I purchased the VIP tickets and had an excellent view!

The party took place at the Posh and Trendy Tongue and Groove lounge.

Many beautiful naturals came out to celebrate NGR’ s anniversary.

There were 2 bars and let me just say these bartenders were great at their jobs…no seriously.

The event was hosted by the lovely BeautifulBrwnBabyDol

(L)-AlchemysChild (M)-BeautifulBrwnBabyDol (R)-Me

The entertainment consisted of Delonda Harvey singing her popular song “Good Enough,” body art, and a fabulous fashion show!

NGR models

There were contests for Best TWA and Best Twist out styles. My friends and I participated…we didn’t win lol.

I bet you can tell who won? Lol

Bestie trying for best Twistout.

Even though we didn’t win, we did get complimentary NGR t-shirts and that was just fine with me since I had my eye on a particular shirt the entire time. I had a really great time and I met some wonderful naturals and fellow bloggers (shout out to April from the Cocoa Report and Yolanda from CurlyandLovely). I definitely will keep an eye out for their next event.

NGR Staff

L-Natural Girls Rock Founder Kelly J (R)-Me

Until next next time lovelies,

Lotus Blossom Out